1. Do the #1 thing in a conversation that according to research can most help your relationship.

2. Apply the 60-second test toward your spouse that reveals the power you have to influence the relationship.

3. See a pink and blue difference that many have testified was an Ah-ha moment that changed their marriage for the better.

4. Recognize that the method you use to motivate your spouse could be having the opposite effect you intend, even though you have goodwill.

5. Jump off what I call the Crazy Cycle that you keep spinning on because you innocently overlook decoding why you and your spouse react to each other.

6. Soften the spirit of your spouse by writing a few sentences in a note that I will help you write.

7. Understand the powerful significance and joy of giving your spouse what they need but do not deserve.

Having said the above, I completely recognize the despair and hopelessness some of you have. I will not minimize the seriousness of your situation and pain. But were we to sit and chat face to face about your circumstances and relationship, I would still move forward with you on these topics. Though there is more to your marriage than these seven actions, these seven would be part of my discussion with you, and must be part of your efforts to help move your relationship forward. Though acting on these things does not guarantee healing in your relationship, you cannot have health apart from these seven actions.

You will also be provided an opportunity to "Ask Emerson" a question about the task (i.e., the topic) for that day. These questions are very helpful to me as I create responses to your concerns.

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With Love and Respect,

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.
Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries